Selecting a PI in Costa Rica

Selecting a PI in Costa Rica can be a challenge. There are only two American PI’s that are here. The rest offer their services from remote locations. This is reason enough to thoroughly vet a PI before you retain them. One in particular is adept at manipulating search engines. Much of the information they promote appears to be generic. Additionally, with the advent of AI, a lot of what they print appears to be generated by AI.

To give you an idea of what challenges you may encounter, one of the PI’s was deported for being illegally in Costa Rica. He relocated to a neighboring country, and set up shop there.  He continued to advertise he was in Costa Rica. Since that time he has reportedly been forced to flee that country. So, you can see why you should vet the PI before you retain one

Why is vetting important?

Let’s face it, you are sharing personal and sensitive information with someone you don’t know. I have an idiom that is appropriate. “if it walks like a duck, swims like a duck, and quacks like a duck…..it’s a duck!” If talking with the PI, you sense or feel uncomfortable, thank them for their time and move on to another. Never be pressured into making an important decision by an aggressive sales pitch and never tolerate any type of bullying. Do not retain a firm that will not allow you to have direct contact with the PI.

How to vet a PI in Costa Rica

First, find out if they are legally here in Costa Rica and have the right to work here. If they are they will be able to provide you with a cedula number (Costa Rica Identification) without that they can’t legally work here. The law here is similar to that in the United States about working without Government permission. If they give you a cedula number, call me and I will verify it for you free of charge. The two Americans referenced earlier are both legal to work in Costa Rica.

Secondly,

Make sure the PI can come to the United States if his investigations lead to litigation.  This is another reason for you to have direct communication with the PI. Most of the time when one of the international firms accepts a case they farm it out to a local. Speaking with the PI will let you know if he/she can speak English. Another reason is to have timely updates as to the progress of the investigation. If the information has to go through a PI provider, it will neither be timely nor accurate. You won’t have the opportunity to question the PI!

Thirdly,

Ask about their experience as a PI in Costa Rica. The law and customs here is uniquely different from that of the United States. The basis for the law here is Napoleonic as opposed to the Common Law which is the basis for law in the United States. Obtaining information here is rife with bureaucratic obstacles. If you have a PI that doesn’t speak and understand both languages you will not understand what is going on.

Finally,

Make sure they have a well-established infrastructure they can access in the event the investigation requires special skills such as an attorney. Often some questions can only be explained with the help of an attorney. PI’s are not attorneys so any information they give you concerning the law here will be flawed.

Conclusion:

This is particularly true in the recovery of money or property. There is no Bar Association here thus there is no oversight of lawyers.  All recorded documents here must be done by a Notary. All notaries must be licensed Costa Rica attorneys, but not all attorneys are Notaries. To have that designation, they have to attend an additional year of law school.

Scams in Costa Rica

Just like any other country, scams in Costa Rica experience its share of scams targeting both tourists and locals. While the situation may change over time, as of my last update in September 2021, here are some popular scams that have been reported in Costa Rica. To avoid falling victim to scams in Costa Rica (or anywhere else), here are some practical steps you can take.

Research and Plan Ahead:

Before you travel, research your destination thoroughly. Familiarize yourself with the local customs, common scams, and areas to avoid. This will help you make informed decisions and recognize potentially risky situations.

Use Reputable Sources:

When booking accommodations, tours, or activities, use reputable travel websites, apps, or agencies with positive reviews. Check for official websites or physical addresses when booking services.

Use Official Transportation:

Stick to official taxis, rideshare services, or pre-arranged transportation from reputable companies. Avoid accepting rides from strangers or unlicensed drivers. Make sure if you use a taxi, you get the price before you get into the car.

Avoid Public Wi-Fi for Sensitive Transactions:

Refrain from using public Wi-Fi networks for online banking, shopping, or any activities involving sensitive personal information. If necessary, use a VPN to encrypt your internet connection.

Unsolicited Offers:

Be cautious of individuals who approach you with unsolicited offers, especially if they seem too good to be true. Politely decline and walk away if you’re uncomfortable.

Guard Your Personal Information:

Don’t share personal or financial information with strangers. Be cautious about displaying expensive items like jewelry or electronics, as this might attract unwanted attention. You should guard your passport and cash. I recommend that you make a copy of your passport and carry it with you. You should leave your passport in the safe where you are staying.

Inspect Rental Vehicles:

If renting a car, thoroughly inspect it for existing damage before driving off. Take photos and document any scratches or issues to avoid disputes later.

Use ATMs Wisely:

Use ATMs located in well-lit, busy areas, such as banks or shopping centers. Cover your PIN while entering it, and be cautious if the ATM looks suspicious or tampered with.

“Helpful” Strangers:

While it’s okay to accept help from genuine locals, be cautious if someone insists on guiding you or offering unsolicited assistance. Politely decline if you’re not comfortable.

Educate Yourself on Local Currency:

Familiarize yourself with the local currency and exchange rates to avoid being tricked into unfair deals. Use official currency exchange centers or banks.

Trust Your Instincts:

If something feels off or too good to be true, it probably is. Trust your instincts and err on the side of caution.

Emergency Contacts:

Save the local embassy or consulate’s contact information in case you encounter legal or safety issues. They can provide assistance if needed.

Learn Basic Local Phrases:

Learning a few basic phrases in the local language can help you communicate and build rapport with locals, making it less likely for scammers to target you.

Secure Your Belongings:

Keep your belongings secure, especially in crowded places or tourist areas. Use anti-theft bags or money belts to protect your valuables.

Stay informed and keep up with local news and updates to be aware of any new scams or safety concerns that might arise during your stay.

Remember that being cautious doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy your trip. It’s about being aware of your surroundings and making informed decisions to have a safe and pleasant experience.

 

 

Expectations of a Costa Rica private investigation

Reasonable expectations of a Costa Rica private  investigation

In any relationship, there are two sides to every story. What should be your expectations of a Costa Rica investigation?  An investigator may consider an absurd request of a client, could stem from from simple lack of communication.  During the process.on giving facts which not only satisfy the case but to satisfy the client may confusing. A private investigators work is in a results-driven market.  It is here  these heightened beliefs which drive some investigators to always bring their respective “A-game” to each assignment. However, this may also lead some investigators to worry in those rare occasions where your results may fall short of your goals, (as well as the client’s interest  future engagements).

Private investigations are not an exact science

As with most who provide services, we do not always have the luxury of hand-selecting our clients.  In some instances we are faced with certain clients who can be more of a burden than a blessing.  Nothing is more frustrating to an investigator than a client who tries and manage an investigation by intruding or withholding information. This alone could result in less than an optimal result 

Communication assist with clear expectations of a Costa Rica Private Investigation

Accepting any assignment, it is critical to communicate to the client the importance of sharing as much information as possible. I always verbally and write communications the are integral to the inquiry. From the beginning  (no matter how minute the details may be) it may prove to be vital during the course of the investigation. It is equally as important to “tone-down” any preconceived notions of what they may expect,as a result of your efforts. The most effective way is to communicate to your client not only what information is potentially attainable, but more importantly, what may not be within the confines of the law.  It is important during the course of your investigation, to keep the client apprised with a brief email or phone call so that they know you are on top of their situation.

No Guarantees

It is important that the client understand that there are no guarantees for this type of work. The nature  and scope of the investigation industry does not allow for guarantees. Many clients are under the impression that if the information they seek is not available or doesn’t exist they should not have to pay. Thus, it is essential that the need to communicate and at times educate the clients as to the limitations that are present in any type of investigation.

 

 

 

 

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Avoiding Costa Rica Scams

Preventing or avoiding Costa Rica scams 

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Often I am asked what should I do in preventing or avoiding scams in Costa Rica. Some are easily avoided or prevented when you are armed with the right information. Before you go, let us review your itinerary and give you feedback on what we know. Our feedback is free and we do not have any affiliations with what we evaluate. Everything from car rentals to food. We have lived here for the past 15 years and have become very familiar with Costa Rica. 

Although our background is law and investigations, it has broadened our knowledge base on all types of scams and frauds. I feel if we can help anyone coming here from falling victim to a scam or fraud, they will want to come back. As you will learn some scams are not deliberate while others are as deliberate as they come.

 

Things to know when coming to Costa Rica

When you decide to come here, there are some things to know coming to Costa Rica. Most who come here do very little research. They come based on advertisements instead of facts. Bear in mind that nothing gets done here quickly. The time frame here is “manana”. For example, accessibility to hospitals or other emergency services. Particularly, those services in the far reaches of Costa Rica like Golfito.

Few give any thought to relationships they may form. The consequences of not knowing who they are dealing with can be fatal. Whether it be a personal or business relationship you need to know who they are dealing with. Relationships, regardless of origin, seem to be better if they are vetted and entered into with both eyes opened. Especially if she is here and you’re not.

Other things to know when coming to Costa Rica

We are offering an evaluation of your planned trip. Since we are here and have been here for over fifteen years, we know the “do’s and don’ts” we can tell you of known or potential problems with your itinerary. Every year we handle dozens of cases involving personal relationships. Things to be considered when coming to Costa Rica and getting involved in long distance relationship for example. I know it is difficult when you are 2,000 miles away and begin to have doubts as the other persons loyalty and truthfulness. The only way you are going to find out is to watch them.

The only way to avoid a bad situation not related to a relationship, is to know the area before you go there. The old adage “an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure”, could not be more appropriate. Whether it’s a relationship or just a trip to get away, you need to know what you’re walking into.

These precautionary measures you can take now can help you avoid the unforeseen problem you face if you don’t have the facts. We offer a free consultation and you can reach anytime at 321-218-9209. Also, visit our Facebook page at https://www.facebook.com/picostarica

Scam Alert For Costa Rica

New Scams in costa rica

This is a new scam alert for Costa Rica. The scammers are calling ex-pats posing as workers from the Embassy. This scam alert for Costa Rica has been documented by the U.S. Embassy. The scammers start the conversation with the assertion that the Embassy is updating its records on American citizens.  The scammers then ask for personal information to verify and update the records. If you didn’t know already, the U.S. calls no one.

We are here to assist you in understanding the threat and to lend assistance to those who may have been victimized. As the leading private investigator in Costa Rica, we try and keep you abreast of recent scams.

 

Scams in Costa Rica Rising

This scam alert for Costa Rica, according to the U.S. Embassy is they do not call anyone to ask for this type of information. According to the Embassy, “ The United States Embassy reminds American citizens that Embassy staff will not initiate calls to U.S. citizens. “

ACTIONS TO TAKE:

Another case recently centered around the purchase of a car that was posted on Facebook. The buyer identified himself as an American living in Guanacaste and sent the seller a copy of his passport. Unbeknownst to the buyer, when the seller saw the name she recognized it from her friends list on her Facebook account. She sent him an instant message telling him she didn’t realize it was him who wanted to buy the car. He told her he had not inquired about a car and in fact was in southeast Asia.

Deception happens

Infidelity in Costa Rica

The things to know about Infidelity in Costa Rica

Deception happensAny infidelity investigation of a cheating spouse or partner is difficult under ideal circumstances. The challenges and obstacles we face while doing such an investigation in Costa Rica are difficult at best. Infidelity in Costa Rica is the norm rather than the exception. Then there are the feelings of betrayal, guilt, and doubt that are very overwhelming, resulting in confusion and lack of good judgment. If  you believe you could be the victim of adultery or infidelity in Costa Rica you need a  professional and reliable private investigator to uncover the factual truth, is worth the investment to do so.  A professional and reliable Costa Rica private investigator is experienced to conduct a discreet surveillance and gather evidence that can be used in court to prove infidelity.

I can’t think of anyone that enters a relationship with the expectation that infidelity will rear its ugly head. Regrettably, infidelity and adultery is all too common. According to many sources, more than 40% of marriages have one if not both spouses admitting to either physical or emotional infidelity.

What is an Infidelity Investigation?

Infidelity in Costa Rica surveillance investigations involve discreetly following an individual suspected to be cheating and obtaining photographic or video evidence for divorce, child custody, or other legal proceedings, or simply for the client’s “peace of mind”.

With the advent and increased use of social media, It can also involve researching Facebook, Instagram or  other social media platforms, dating profiles, and taking witness statements to establish the cheating.

In other words, during the course of an infidelity investigation, your investigator will do whatever is necessary within legal and ethical boundaries to obtain you the evidence you need.

Warning Signs of Infidelity in Costa Rica

There are a variety of behaviors that may indicate a cheating partner. It’s important to remember that there may be other reasonable explanations for any of these behaviors, however, if you observe any combination of the following behaviors, then it may be time to investigate:

  • Unusual or frequent trips to Costa Rica alone or with “buddies”
  • Spending more time “out with friends” or acting like he/she is single.
  • Dressing better than usual, especially when going out without you.
  • Seems bored or disinterested with children, family activities, etc.
  • Diminished sex drive and excuses to avoid sexual intercourse.
  • Diminished interest in communicating or spending time with you.
  • New password protection of phone, computer or other devices.
  • Acting excessively protecting of their cell phone.
  • Getting new credit cards
  • Small lies and omissions.
  • Removing pictures of you or family from cell phone or wallet.
  • Becoming defensive when asked about time spent away from the homeRica

 Staring an Infidelity Investigation in Costa Rica, Here’s how the process works:

Obtain a Free Consultation:

  1. Utilize our chat feature or call via our toll free phone to talk to a Mr. Gear. He will help you understand if and how a surveillance investigation can achieve your goals, and the estimated cost of your case.
  1. Mr. Gear will then want the following questions answered. You should be prepared to answer questions like:
  • What is your relationship to the person being investigated?
  • How long have you been in a relationship?
  • What makes you believe they are being unfaithful?
  • Do you have recent photographs of the person?
  • Do you know what airline will be used and the flight number?
  • Is he travelling with someone, if so do you have pictures of them?
  • Do you know who they may be having an affair with?
  • When do you want the investigation to begin?
  • Do you know where the person will be during the investigation?
  • Are you working with an attorney?
  • Will this evidence be used in a current legal case?
Investigation in Progress:
  1. Once approved by you, Mr. Gear and his agents will begin the investigation. At the heart of any infidelity investigation is direct surveillance of the suspected spouse.

Investigators may follow the person as far as is necessary and within limits of the surveillance and gather photographic and/or video evidence. Because of the nature of these surveillance, cases usually start at a minimum of 10 hours of investigative time.

  1. Case Updates & Final Report: Mr. Gear will keep you informed of any and all important developments throughout the course of your adultery surveillance investigation, and provide you with a final report summarizing all findings at the conclusion of the investigation.

Additionally, Mr. Gear will be available to testify in court if necessary and agreed upon at the beginning of the investigation.

Privacy and discretion is a top priority and therefore all communications between clients and investigators will be kept in strict confidence.

What Investigators Will Not Do

Mr. Gear and his agents will adhere to the law and all  ethical standards during all stages of the investigation. We will not attempt to access any legally restricted records or data, or trespass onto private property without permission.

Reasons for Hiring a Costa Rica P.I.

Here are some reasons for hiring a Costa Rica P.I.

International asset search

Here are some reasons for hiring a Costa Rica P.I.. Indeed divorces and legal cases are so common today, they are almost hard to avoid. But, there are other reasons when an asset might be important as well, such as part of a merger or international due diligence to verify a buyer or potential partner. Lawyers, individuals and companies use private investigators to find assets overseas. I know as I have found both bank accounts and physical property. Divorce and family law investigations if you suspect your spouse is cheating or hiding important information or assets from you. There are ways to tell if your spouse is hiding assets and a reputable private investigator can access records such as bank accounts you don’t know about or follow a spouse who has become distant to see if he or she is cheating. Before you hire someone, remember that a private investigator can help your attorney uncover evidence, if and when needed.

Infidelity investigations

Not knowing if your spouse is having an affair is a painful and devastating thing. Private investigators help with these unfortunate situations every day. A Costa Rica private Investigator can discreetly find out facts and information and uncover the truth so you know whether or not your spouse is guilty of infidelity. There is no evidence like photograph and video evidence from surveillance footage on your partner.

Dating background checks

Whether you met your Mr. or Ms. Perfect online or offline, these days it pays to be cautious. Accordingly, these are other reasons for hiring a Costa Rica P.I. How do you know the individual you met over the internet, or at a bar, is truly who he or she claims to be? You don’t. Clients rely on private investigation companies to conduct a comprehensive dating background check that verifies education, employment, address, criminal and court records, ID or passport, date of birth and more. Investigators also screen the case for fraud and identify risks.

Fraud/embezzlement investigations

You may wonder, should your company use background check investigations? The answer is yes — it can help prevent future problems. All too often, businesses find themselves in a situation where assets are missing, books weren’t kept accurately or bribes have been taken. P.I.s can determine if assets were fictitious, improper payments were made or whether there were other misrepresentations. Private investigators can also track down the guilty party through background checks, and asset searches uncover the money trail.

Romance scam risk

Now Online dating is a booming industry, consequently it has come a source of fraud and scams. Posting profiles and photos is simply and fast, and anyone can do it – even criminals hoping to scam you. Victims of romance scams lose more than money. Victims are often devastated financially and emotionally. Comprehensive background checks by real investigators are the best prevention to avoid dating scams. The truth is, anyone can be a victim and no dating site is 100% immune from romance scams. A Costa Rica P.I. can verify the truth behind the profile.

Employment or personal background check

If you hiring or dating internationally or even locally, false CV and backgrounds do occur and put your company at risk. Companies who are serious about protecting themselves and hiring only the best take these verifications seriously. Checking criminal records alone is not a prudent verification method, and certainly not an investigation. Professional investigators verify employment candidates in detail, and determine if the individual is competent and qualified, before

Business background check

A business, like a person, has a past and a culture and interacts with many people every day. However what you see may not truly mirror what the business is all about. Private investigators can research and investigate and deliver evidence that you’re doing business with a reputable entity.

Child custody case

You’re probably looking for tips on how to win custody of your child. To win a child custody case, you must uncover facts that are compelling – and admissible — in court. Private investigators can serve as a witness in a case and prove facts that are tough to prove on your own. Even a potentially difficult case can turn into a simple one at trial with the right facts and evidence.

Identity theft risk

Identity theft happens when a person’s personal information is stolen and the criminal then commits fraud or theft under that person’s identity. Unfortunately, investigators say identify theft is only getting worse — millions of dollars are lost every year as a result of identity theft – and hundreds of dollars and countless hours are spent trying to repair victims’ credit. Private investigators can help determine who stole your identity and can create a report for you to take to law enforcement. More importantly, expert investigators can advise how not to be a victim.

Document verification

Let’s say your case is fairly simple, and you have a copy of a passport, ID or documents that you need to verify the authenticity of. Despite your efforts, there is no way for your to verify if the document is real, and it may not even be in a language you can read. Luckily, international investigators verify passports, identifications and documents from around the world on a daily basis.

Pre Marital Checks

Marriage is a big deal, especially if it involves a foreign bride or groom. Don’t start the visa process without knowing the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth! An expert investigator can verify everything you know or think you know about an individual, before the wedding.

Investment scam risk

Investment scams these days, unfortunately, are a dime a dozen. Fraudulent websites, false companies and endless possibilities now target individuals and companies. High risk fraud zones are in countries like China and the United Arab Emirates, etc, but the threat is now global thanks to the internet. Costa Rica is rife with scammers and it behooves you to conduct a thorough due diligence before you sign anything. It’s more important than ever to properly verify with international due diligence.

Safe international hiring

For companies hiring here the reasons for hiring a Costa Rica P.I. who specialize in international cases can help a company or client develop a customized strategy to properly verify candidates. This goes beyond your standard international background checks, and can be a great solution for companies and individuals who need to know what they should verify, based on their unique situation and risk.A professional private investigator offers many reliable services to help in many situations – from criminal cases to infidelity to background checks. Just make sure you do your homework and deal with a company you can trust, with highly trained investigators on the ground where you need them. Services offered and quality of services vary dramatically from one company to the next.

Employment background check

If you hiring internationally or even locally, false CV and backgrounds do occur and put your company at risk. Companies who are serious about protecting themselves and hiring only the best take these verifications seriously. Checking criminal records alone is not a prudent verification method, and certainly not an investigation. Professional investigators verify employment candidates in detail, and determine if the individual is competent and qualified, before you commit.

Personal injury investigation

A private investigator knows the ways to win your personal injury lawsuit. He or she can find key witnesses and other information essential to win the case. A skilled professional can find photographs of the crash when the crash report is incomplete. Make sure to obtain the police transcription of the 911 calls too – sometimes he or she is the only witness.

Insurance fraud claims

Insurance fraud happens when an act is committed with the intent to obtain a benefit in which a person is not otherwise entitled. False insurance claims are filed with the intent to defraud an insurance provider and they cost billions of dollars each year. Insurance fraud claims range from stretching the truth to committing intentional damages or injury. Private investigators can help identify the truth. We photograph those suffering from leg injuries playing basketball, and so on. In some cases, investigators may even photograph a living person, who is supposed to be deceased!

 

Costa Rica Investigator

Hiring a Costa Rica Private Investigator

Before hiring a Costa Rica private investigator

 

Hiring a Costa Rica private investigator does not have to be a stressful or difficult process.  Before hiring a Costa Rica private investigator, I will share with you these simple steps as a guideline for locating the right Costa Rica private investigator. Today, it is easy to be misled, so it behooves you to thoroughly vett the PI before you retain them. I have assembled a few tips and guidelines to help you make an informed decision. These guidelines apply to me as well and I endeavor to make sure my clients have as much information as possible.

Licensing

There is no licensing system for private investigators in Costa Rica. Thus it is important to feel comfortable with the PI you select. No one in Costa Rica has a license to do investigations.  Unlike the United States where PI licensing is regulated on the state level. If the actual investigator does not possess a license issued by a state, then that tells you that this person is possibly unqualified to do investigative work.

Currently, the only states that do not require private investigators to be licensed are: Colorado, Idaho, Mississippi, South Dakota, & Wyoming

Always contact the appropriate state licensing agency to confirm an investigator’s license is current and in good standing prior to hiring them.

PI Firms vs. Individuals

One key choice in hiring a Costa Rica Private Investigator is whether to hire an individual or an investigative firm. Firms typically employ greater resources and are ideal for cases requiring large amounts of surveillance and manpower. Individual PI’s can often provide a wealth of knowledge with issues including the location of persons, background investigations, asset investigations etc.

Be sure to choose an investigator or firm that employs the necessary resources and prior experience to properly address your needs.

Hiring a Private Investigator

It is important to feel comfortable with the PI you choose as matters that require private investigation cases are often of a sensitive nature. Look for individuals who are able to think “outside of the box” and adapt to changing situations easily. Inquire as to signing a contract or agreement listing the private investigator’s services, fees, and terms. Make sure this agreement comes from the person or firm who is physically present in Costa Rica and is actually doing the investigation. This protects both parties.

Be sure to ask a potential investigator as many questions as possible. Use your judgment in selecting a PI. If your not comfortable with their answers, demeanor, or experience you should find another private investigator with who you are.

Questions to Ask Your Investigator

How long have you been in business?

How many cases of this nature have you handled?

What is your success rate with cases of this nature?

What are your rates and fees?

Will you provide me with a written contract?

Do you have experience testifying in court?

Do you take video of surveillance operations?

Can you perform covert surveillance as needed?

Can you provide a reference of an attorney you’ve worked for in the past?

Avoid Scams of Dating Services

Avoid Scams of Dating Services

To protect yourself against scammers and marriage fraud, read my below article and discover how you to avoid it. This is my thoughts how to avoid scams of dating services.I know that online dating can be a great way to meet new people, However, it’s also ripe with opportunity for scammers. I recommend awareness of the scams out there and taking steps to avoid them. As a result you can have a more positive online dating experience.This guide will teach you how to spot and avoid scams of dating scams that are online. I will cover everything from how to identify a scammer to how to protect your personal information. We’ll also give you some tips on how to stay safe while online dating. Scamming isn’t the only thing you have to worry about in online dating.

Don’t accept the first date offered.

Scamming isn’t the only thing you have to worry about in online dating. Here are some tips to help you have a relatively safe online dating experience.Online dating sites can be a little overwhelming. I read an article by Megan Ellis succinctly outlined the dangers in her article. With so many people to meet, it’s easy to fall into the trap of dating someone off of a profile, without first meeting them in person. Before you commit, ask yourself if you’re really interested. If you are, schedule a second (or third, or fourth) date.

Pay attention to your gut feeling.

Just because someone says they love the band you like, or, have the same politics as you doesn’t mean they’re being honest. If someone doesn’t seem right, don’t go out with them.

Be wary of long-distance relationships.

So, how do I Avoid Scams of Dating Services. If you’re in a long-distance relationship and want to meet your new love in person, don’t fall for the trap of online dating. Using the Internet to communicate will only make the relationship harder to maintain. If you don’t want to move in with your new love, you could be setting yourself up for heartache.

Don’t date someone you met on a dating website, unless you’re really sure it’s a safe, reputable site.

If you’ve met someone on a dating website and want to date them, make sure you research the site and check out reviews of it before you get involved. Scammers can use fake profiles to cheat people out of money, so make sure you meet in person at least once before you commit.

Be wary of people who want to buy you gifts or send you money.

This is another red flag and will help avoid scams of dating services. If you meet someone who offers you money, you should be wary. Don’t think of them as a romantic suitor and don’t get too cozy with them. If they ask you for money, you should be wary.

Don’t share too much personal information.

When you sign up for a dating site or app, be sure to keep your personal information private. Don’t share your address, phone number, or other personal information.

If you do give out this information, you’ll need to be careful. Scammers can use your information to steal your identity, so be sure to change your login information frequently.

Be careful when you’re talking on the phone.

If you’re talking on the phone with someone you just met or someone who just wants to get to know you better, be sure to meet in person. Don’t make any decisions over the phone. If you need to do something, do it in person and if you need to make a quick decision, ask the person to explain ASAP.

Always send a message to the person’s phone, not their email.

Many scammers use fake email addresses to scam people. If you receive an email from someone you just met, be wary. Ask for phone numbers and meeting times and check them out before you commit.

Don’t give out your phone number to someone you just met.

If someone you just met wants to chat on a dating app, don’t give them your phone number. Never, ever give out your personal information.

Be careful when you meet in person.